People tends to be so pretentious nowadays. At first, it seems that they don't care and knew nothing. Escaping their responsibilities and showing other people that they are not affected of the chaotic thing happening around them. I was so annoyed when i see people trying to avoid their obligations and in the end when everything didn't turn out well they would give you not so good comments and would blame you for what happened. These people were good in what we so called "playing safe", in other words, when everything turn out well they would associate their selves with it (though they did nothing in making it successful) but when it turns out bad it is very easy for them to tell other people that they were not part of it, it wasn't their plan and blame you for what happened. Their genius mind becomes in motion giving you advices like you shouldn't have this, you would've make use of this, it's all your fault you didn't ask anything from me.... What the! I don't need it!
Now I am carrying all the burden. It is because from the very beginning I am the one, the only one who have the HEART doing it. I have to comfort those people, I have to give them the assurance that they did well but it wasn't enough so we have to be prepared and give our 100% next time. An advice that we put up a good fight, they were happy performing and we did our best won't wash away the SADNESS they felt. What they need are real people who would stand with them no matter what happened. A person who would stand at their back giving them hopes and assuring them support and leading them by example.
I don't regret doing all the best thing I could to help them in their battle, what I regret the most is seeing other people doing nothing but in the end they would be the first to blame you to what happened.
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